Congratulations, you have been given the job of best man. What an honour.
We have put together the complete stag party best man guide to save you time and hassle: your best man duties, the speech, the games, and a stag do the groom will thank you for. Funktion Events has organised 12,000+ stag weekends since 2007 and is ABTA-bonded (Member No. Y6501), so the advice here comes from people who do this every day.
Take the pressure off, grab a brew and read through the lot. When it comes to the day itself, our funny stag do activities get the biggest laughs out of the group.
The Stag Do Essentials
Best Man Tips & Advice
What is a best man?
Everyone knows someone who has been a best man, but what is the job? The best man is the groom’s right-hand man and confidant through the whole wedding process, responsible for a range of duties before, during and after the day. Whatever the groom needs sorting, he comes to the best man.
Sort the stag do: agree the budget, sort the guest list, pick the stag do destination (our rankings of all 73 make that quick) and book the activities.
Settle any bar tabs or supplier bills the group agreed in advance.
Make sure the cards and gifts get to the couple.
Ready to sort the stag do?
The stag do is the biggest single job on your list, and you do not have to do it alone. Agree the dates, numbers and budget with the group first, then let us handle the activities, nightlife and accommodation.
Start with our stag do destinations (73 across the UK and Europe), browse stag do ideas for the daytime, and check the all-in stag do packages if you want it sorted in one go. You book the whole group for a £20 deposit, not a deposit per person, and everyone pays their own share online, so you are not chasing mates for cash.
The best man is the groom’s right-hand man through the whole wedding process. The core duties are organising the stag do, helping with the suits, keeping the ushers and groomsmen organised, looking after the rings, signing the marriage register as a witness, and giving a speech at the reception. See our full best man duties checklist for the detail.
Start as early as you can. Most best men begin sorting the stag do around a year before the wedding, and eight to ten weeks is usually the minimum to lock in dates, numbers and a destination. The speech can wait a little longer, but do not leave it to the night before.
The common ones: leaving the stag do too late, not agreeing a budget with the group, losing the rings, and writing the speech at the last minute. Agree numbers and money early, keep the rings somewhere safe, and have the speech drafted weeks ahead so you can practise it.
The groom usually does not pay for his own stag do; the group splits his share between them. The best man covers his own costs like everyone else. With Funktion Events you book the whole group for a £20 deposit, not a deposit per person, and everyone pays their own share online, so you are not fronting the cash for the group.
Keep it short. Around five minutes, or roughly 700 to 1,000 words, is the sweet spot: long enough for a few stories, short enough to keep the room with you. Our best man speech guide has structure, examples and lines to avoid.
It is traditionally the best man’s job, but you do not have to do it alone. Rope in the ushers or a deputy, agree the budget and dates with the group, then let us handle the activities, nightlife and accommodation. Browse stag do ideas and destinations to start.
On the day you get the groom there on time and calm, look after the rings, stand beside him through the ceremony, sign the register as a witness, give your speech at the reception, and keep the day running so the couple can enjoy it.
The best man leads: the speech, the rings, the stag do and the main support for the groom. Ushers support the best man, mainly guiding guests to their seats and handing out the orders of service. See our usher duties guide for what they cover.
Add this list of side-splitting stag do forfeits to your celebrations to spice up the night! Includes light-hearted fun and all out war-starting challenges.
Stag prank ideas that land without getting you thrown out. From life drawing stitch-ups to costume bar crawls — built into a proper weekend by Funktion Events.
Although a clip-on does the job just fine, read on to learn how to tie a Windsor knot before the big day and make sure you’re looking as sharp as possible!
Have read of our essential best man speech guide and plan the perfect monologue with structure ideas, jokes, do’s and don’ts and awesome closing lines!
Add some personalisation into the stag celebrations with some stag do t-shirts. This hilarious list will provide you with all the stag do nicknames you’d need!
Read how much time, effort and money a Best man spends to ensure his best mate has the greatest day of his life! Full of facts, figures and interesting points.
Make it a night to remember with these wild stag do dares – designed for the brave and attempted by few, these will be sure to make it a proper wild night out!
Pick out your best gear and prepare to hit the pubs and bars with a sporty twist as you and the lads compete for glory with the pub golf drinking game!
Find the best stag do themes to make your groom blush including hilarious costumes, traditional accessories and more in this complete theme buying guide!
Make sure you and the lads kick off your big night out with plenty of banter and boozy antics by starting the evening with the Ring of Fire drinking game!