Sexy Hen Party Ideas: Cheeky & Daring Activities
Sexy hen party ideas that stay cheeky and daring without ever tipping into tacky. Browse 25 bookable activities, from a Dreamboys strip show and Butlers in the Buff to life drawing, burlesque and body painting, each one as tame or as wild as the bride wants. Every act is run by professionals, so it stays fun and the whole group, mums and aunties included, stays comfortable.
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Activities
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Mobile Life Drawing & Butler
- Draw a Model
- All materials provided
- Cheeky butler experience
- Comes to your venue
- £29.00
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Buff Butlers
- Hot butler wearing just an apron
- Available day & evening
- Hire more than one
- Play games, serve drinks
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£214.00 - Now £195.00
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Life Drawing
- Male life model
- Plus an Art tutor
- City centre private venue
- All drawing materials included
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£35.00 - Now £29.50
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Mobile Cocktail Class & Butler
- Hunky Mixologist
- 3 cocktails each
- Play games
- Everything included
- £42.50
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Dreamboys Male Strip Show
- Famous male strip show
- Seating for the whole group
- Hunky strippers
- Meet & greet the Dreamboys
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£32.00 - Now £31.00
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Pimp That Penis
- Penises to decorate
- All materials and paint
- Art tutor
- Private central
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£37.00 - Now £35.00
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Art of Seduction
- Learn some cheeky techniques
- Male model included
- Whips, paddles, blindfolds
- Private room in city centre
- £35.00
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Dreamboys & Cocktail Making
- Save Money!
- City Centre Venues
- Dreamboys Male Strip Show
- Cocktail Making Party
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£66.50 - Now £64.50
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DIY Pimp That Penis
- Delivered to you
- Self-run hilarity
- Paints and decorations
- Ceramic penis each
- £23.00
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Burlesque Dance
- Fun burlesque themed routine
- City centre private venues
- Dance instructor
- Fun props like fans or boas
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£29.00 - Now £26.00
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Olympic Shames
- Silly Innuendo Games
- Great for hen parties
- Tutus in team colours
- Adult version of sports day
- £34.50
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Mobile Garter Making
- Bespoke garter making
- Ribbons, trims & charms
- Expert tuition
- Organza gift bag provided
- £45.00
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Cocktail Making & Life Drawing
- Save Money!
- City Centre Venues
- Cocktail Making Party
- Life Drawing Party
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£65.00 - Now £63.00
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Mobile Knicker Making
- Customise knickers
- Great fun, cheeky activity
- Colourful fabrics
- Motifs, sequins, lace
- £45.00
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Afternoon Tease
- Selection of sandwiches & cakes
- Hosted by a naked butler
- City centre venues
- Cheeky & sophisticated
- £55.00
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Chocolate & Pimp Combo
- EXCLUSIVE DEAL
- Chocolate Making & Pimp that Penis
- Central venue
- All materials included
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£81.00 - Now £72.00
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Chocolate & Life Combo
- EXCLUSIVE DEAL
- Chocolate Making & Life Drawing
- Central venue
- All materials included
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£74.00 - Now £65.00
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DIY Nipple Tassel Kits
- Group crafting
- Bespoke tassels
- Delivery included
- Sequins, trims & templates
- £23.00
Mobile Nipple Tassels Making
- We come to you!
- Create your own nipple tassels
- Sequins, Swarovski crystals, silk
- Cottages, Apartments, Homes
- £45.00
Offers
Dreamboys & Cocktail Making
- Save Money!
- City Centre Venues
- Dreamboys Male Strip Show
- Cocktail Making Party
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Was
£66.50 - Now £64.50
Cocktail Making & Life Drawing
- Save Money!
- City Centre Venues
- Cocktail Making Party
- Life Drawing Party
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Was
£65.00 - Now £63.00
Top 10 Sexy Hen Party Activities
Booked, hosted and run by professional acts, from 55,000+ hen parties organised since 2007
Swipe for type and best for →
| Rank | Activity | Best For |
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| 1 | Dreamboys Male Strip ShowShow | The big night, full wow factor |
| 2 | Butlers in the BuffHosts | The easiest icebreaker |
| 3 | Life DrawingClass | All ages, mums included |
| 4 | Adonis Cabaret ShowShow | Bigger groups, whole evening |
| 5 | Burlesque Dance ClassClass | Tease and confidence |
| 6 | DIY Nipple Tassel KitsDIY kit | At home, cheeky craft |
| 7 | Pimp That PenisCraft | Rude and silly |
| 8 | Body PaintingCreative | The daring hen |
| 9 | Art of SeductionClass | Learn a cheeky routine |
| 10 | Afternoon TeaseDaytime | Classy-cheeky with fizz |
All UK-bookable and hosted by trained acts, so the day stays fun and comfortable. Pick the level that suits the bride, from a daytime tease to a full night out.
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Dreamboys Male Strip Show
The official Dreamboys, the UK’s biggest male strip show. Six-packs, cheesy routines and a lot of screaming from the front row, and the bride-to-be could get pulled up on stage if the group is up for it.
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Butlers in the Buff
A cheeky butler in a collar, cuffs and a little apron, serving the drinks and running games while the hens take photos. The simplest icebreaker there is, and it works in the daytime at your accommodation.
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Life Drawing
Sketch a male model, your own drink in hand. No artistic skill needed, the giggling does the work, and it is cheeky enough for the friends but tame enough for the mums.
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Adonis Cabaret Show
A full night of muscle, comedy and dancing in a club, often with a meal and entry thrown in. Made for bigger hen parties who want the whole evening handled in one booking.
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Burlesque Dance Class
Learn a feather-fan routine with a pro dancer, all tease and attitude rather than skin. The hen walks out with a strut she did not have that morning.
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DIY Nipple Tassel Kits
Make and decorate your own tassels at the house with a saucy kit that turns up ready to go. Daft, hands-on and perfect for a night in before you head out, with no host needed.
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Pimp That Penis
The cheeky craft classic. Decorate a clay willy with glitter and feathers while the art host keeps a straight face. Daft, rude and very easy to throw yourself into.
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Body Painting
The daring hen becomes the canvas, or the group paints a model, guided by a real body-paint artist. The boldest pick on the list and a guaranteed talking point.
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Art of Seduction
Learn the moves, the walk and the wink from a burlesque or striptease pro. A daytime confidence boost that has the whole room cheering the hen on.
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Afternoon Tease
Burlesque, bubbly and a touch of cabaret in one daytime package. Classy but playful for groups who want the fun without committing to a late club night.
Sexy Hen Party Activities in Action
See what a sexy hen activity actually looks like, from the butlers to the big shows.
Why a Sexy Activity Works for a Hen Do
A cheeky activity is the classic hen do centrepiece for a reason. It puts the bride-to-be front and centre, which is the whole point of the day, and it warms the room faster than anything else when the group is a mix of old friends, work mates and family who have never met. Five minutes of a butler running a game or a model holding a pose, and everyone has relaxed.
The trick is that the best ones are cheeky, not crude. A good act reads the group and keeps it light, so nobody is put on the spot and the hen is laughing rather than cringing. That is the difference between a story she happily retells for years and a moment she would rather forget.
It photographs brilliantly too. A buff butler holding a tray, the group mid-life-drawing, the hens cheering at a Dreamboys show, these are the shots that fill the group chat and end up framed. The wow factor is half the appeal, and it sets the tone for the night that follows.
How Tame or Wild Should You Go?
Sexy means different things to different hens, so treat it as a dial rather than a single setting. At the tamer end, a life drawing class, a burlesque lesson or Butlers in the Buff is cheeky and fun without anyone taking much off, which is exactly why these suit a group with mums and aunties in it. For a more elegant version of the same idea, see our classy hen party ideas.
At the wilder end, a Dreamboys strip show or the Adonis Cabaret is a full-on night of muscle and noise, best saved for an evening with the close friends. Most hens land somewhere in the middle: a daytime tease, then a bigger night out.
You do not have to leave the house, either. Butlers, life drawing and DIY kits like garters and nipple tassels can all come to you, so you keep it private and pour your own drinks. See what travels in our mobile hen party options. Whatever level you land on, tell us and we match the act to the group.
Sexy hen activities run right across the UK, from Liverpool and Brighton to Manchester and London. Browse all our hen do destinations to compare.
“The brides who are nervous about a sexy activity are always the ones laughing hardest by the end. The acts are professionals, they read the room, and it is far more playful fun than anyone expects. Pick the level you are comfortable with and we sort the rest.”
Eleanor
Group Booking Specialist
"Great experience for my hen do. My friends organised a Butler in the Buff as a surprise and it was so much fun!"
— Holly, via Trustpilot
Why Book Your Sexy Hen Do With Funktion Events
You pick the activities, we book the lot. Tell us about the hen, the dates and the city, and your hen party planner sorts the acts, timings and venues, so all you have to do on the day is enjoy the show.
- Every act booked and confirmed for you, with professional, reliable suppliers.
- Every hen pays her own share online, so the organiser is not chasing anyone.
- Book for 11 on a package and the 12th place goes free.
- ABTA-bonded (Y6501), so your money is protected from the moment you book.
Ready to sort it? Build your own hen do online, or call the team on 0161 341 0052 and we will line it up.
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