Sexy Hen Party Ideas: Cheeky & Daring Activities

Sexy hen party ideas that stay cheeky and daring without ever tipping into tacky. Browse 25 bookable activities, from a Dreamboys strip show and Butlers in the Buff to life drawing, burlesque and body painting, each one as tame or as wild as the bride wants. Every act is run by professionals, so it stays fun and the whole group, mums and aunties included, stays comfortable.

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Mobile Life Drawing & Butler

  • Draw a Model
  • All materials provided
  • Cheeky butler experience
  • Comes to your venue
  • £29.00
Rating 4.8 of 5
Buff Butlers

Buff Butlers

  • Hot butler wearing just an apron
  • Available day & evening
  • Hire more than one
  • Play games, serve drinks
  • Was £214.00
  • Now £195.00
£19 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5
Life Drawing

Life Drawing

  • Male life model
  • Plus an Art tutor
  • City centre private venue
  • All drawing materials included
  • Was £35.00
  • Now £29.50
£5.50 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5
Mobile Cocktail Class & Butler

Mobile Cocktail Class & Butler

  • Hunky Mixologist
  • 3 cocktails each
  • Play games
  • Everything included
  • £42.50
Dreamboys Male Strip Show

Dreamboys Male Strip Show

  • Famous male strip show
  • Seating for the whole group
  • Hunky strippers
  • Meet & greet the Dreamboys
  • Was £32.00
  • Now £31.00
£1 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 4.9 of 5
Pimp That Penis

Pimp That Penis

  • Penises to decorate
  • All materials and paint
  • Art tutor
  • Private central
  • Was £37.00
  • Now £35.00
£2 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 4.7 of 5
Adonis Cabaret Show

Adonis Cabaret Show

  • Comedy Drag
  • Male Strip Show
  • Welcome Drink
  • Meet the acts
  • £32.00
Rating 5.0 of 5
Art of Seduction

Art of Seduction

  • Learn some cheeky techniques
  • Male model included
  • Whips, paddles, blindfolds
  • Private room in city centre
  • £35.00
Rating 4.8 of 5

Dreamboys & Cocktail Making

  • Save Money!
  • City Centre Venues
  • Dreamboys Male Strip Show
  • Cocktail Making Party
  • Was £66.50
  • Now £64.50
£2 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5
Male Stripper

Male Stripper

  • Hunky male
  • Surprise the bride
  • He comes to you
  • 15 min show
  • £220.00
DIY Pimp That Penis

DIY Pimp That Penis

  • Delivered to you
  • Self-run hilarity
  • Paints and decorations
  • Ceramic penis each
  • £23.00
Striptease Life Drawing

Striptease Life Drawing

  • Life model
  • Poses & Striptease
  • Drawing materials
  • Art tutor
  • £44.00
Burlesque Dance

Burlesque Dance

  • Fun burlesque themed routine
  • City centre private venues
  • Dance instructor
  • Fun props like fans or boas
  • Was £29.00
  • Now £26.00
£3 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5
Olympic Shames

Olympic Shames

  • Silly Innuendo Games
  • Great for hen parties
  • Tutus in team colours
  • Adult version of sports day
  • £34.50
Rating 5.0 of 5
Body Painting

Body Painting

  • Semi naked model
  • Cheeky artist fun
  • All materials
  • Art tutor to assist
  • £35.00
Rating 5.0 of 5
Mobile Garter Making

Mobile Garter Making

  • Bespoke garter making
  • Ribbons, trims & charms
  • Expert tuition
  • Organza gift bag provided
  • £45.00
Rating 5.0 of 5

Cocktail Making & Life Drawing

  • Save Money!
  • City Centre Venues
  • Cocktail Making Party
  • Life Drawing Party
  • Was £65.00
  • Now £63.00
£2 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5
Mobile Knicker Making

Mobile Knicker Making

  • Customise knickers
  • Great fun, cheeky activity
  • Colourful fabrics
  • Motifs, sequins, lace
  • £45.00
Rating 5.0 of 5
Afternoon Tease

Afternoon Tease

  • Selection of sandwiches & cakes
  • Hosted by a naked butler
  • City centre venues
  • Cheeky & sophisticated
  • £55.00
Rating 4.8 of 5
Chocolate & Pimp Combo

Chocolate & Pimp Combo

  • EXCLUSIVE DEAL
  • Chocolate Making & Pimp that Penis
  • Central venue
  • All materials included
  • Was £81.00
  • Now £72.00
£9 off
till 03/07/2026
Chocolate & Life Combo

Chocolate & Life Combo

  • EXCLUSIVE DEAL
  • Chocolate Making & Life Drawing
  • Central venue
  • All materials included
  • Was £74.00
  • Now £65.00
£9 off
till 03/07/2026
DIY Nipple Tassel Kits

DIY Nipple Tassel Kits

  • Group crafting
  • Bespoke tassels
  • Delivery included
  • Sequins, trims & templates
  • £23.00
Mobile Nipple Tassels Making

Mobile Nipple Tassels Making

  • We come to you!
  • Create your own nipple tassels
  • Sequins, Swarovski crystals, silk
  • Cottages, Apartments, Homes
  • £45.00
Rating 4.5 of 5

Dreamboys & Cocktail Making

  • Save Money!
  • City Centre Venues
  • Dreamboys Male Strip Show
  • Cocktail Making Party
  • Was £66.50
  • Now £64.50
£2 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5

Cocktail Making & Life Drawing

  • Save Money!
  • City Centre Venues
  • Cocktail Making Party
  • Life Drawing Party
  • Was £65.00
  • Now £63.00
£2 off
till 03/07/2026
Rating 5.0 of 5

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Top 10 Sexy Hen Party Activities

Booked, hosted and run by professional acts, from 55,000+ hen parties organised since 2007

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Rank Activity Type Best For
1 Dreamboys Male Strip ShowShow Show The big night, full wow factor
2 Butlers in the BuffHosts Hosts The easiest icebreaker
3 Life DrawingClass Class All ages, mums included
4 Adonis Cabaret ShowShow Show Bigger groups, whole evening
5 Burlesque Dance ClassClass Class Tease and confidence
6 DIY Nipple Tassel KitsDIY kit DIY kit At home, cheeky craft
7 Pimp That PenisCraft Craft Rude and silly
8 Body PaintingCreative Creative The daring hen
9 Art of SeductionClass Class Learn a cheeky routine
10 Afternoon TeaseDaytime Daytime Classy-cheeky with fizz

All UK-bookable and hosted by trained acts, so the day stays fun and comfortable. Pick the level that suits the bride, from a daytime tease to a full night out.

  1. Dreamboys Male Strip Show

    The official Dreamboys, the UK’s biggest male strip show. Six-packs, cheesy routines and a lot of screaming from the front row, and the bride-to-be could get pulled up on stage if the group is up for it.

  2. Butlers in the Buff

    A cheeky butler in a collar, cuffs and a little apron, serving the drinks and running games while the hens take photos. The simplest icebreaker there is, and it works in the daytime at your accommodation.

  3. Life Drawing

    Sketch a male model, your own drink in hand. No artistic skill needed, the giggling does the work, and it is cheeky enough for the friends but tame enough for the mums.

  4. Adonis Cabaret Show

    A full night of muscle, comedy and dancing in a club, often with a meal and entry thrown in. Made for bigger hen parties who want the whole evening handled in one booking.

  5. Burlesque Dance Class

    Learn a feather-fan routine with a pro dancer, all tease and attitude rather than skin. The hen walks out with a strut she did not have that morning.

  6. DIY Nipple Tassel Kits

    Make and decorate your own tassels at the house with a saucy kit that turns up ready to go. Daft, hands-on and perfect for a night in before you head out, with no host needed.

  7. Pimp That Penis

    The cheeky craft classic. Decorate a clay willy with glitter and feathers while the art host keeps a straight face. Daft, rude and very easy to throw yourself into.

  8. Body Painting

    The daring hen becomes the canvas, or the group paints a model, guided by a real body-paint artist. The boldest pick on the list and a guaranteed talking point.

  9. Art of Seduction

    Learn the moves, the walk and the wink from a burlesque or striptease pro. A daytime confidence boost that has the whole room cheering the hen on.

  10. Afternoon Tease

    Burlesque, bubbly and a touch of cabaret in one daytime package. Classy but playful for groups who want the fun without committing to a late club night.

Sexy Hen Party Activities in Action

See what a sexy hen activity actually looks like, from the butlers to the big shows.

Why a Sexy Activity Works for a Hen Do

A cheeky activity is the classic hen do centrepiece for a reason. It puts the bride-to-be front and centre, which is the whole point of the day, and it warms the room faster than anything else when the group is a mix of old friends, work mates and family who have never met. Five minutes of a butler running a game or a model holding a pose, and everyone has relaxed.

The trick is that the best ones are cheeky, not crude. A good act reads the group and keeps it light, so nobody is put on the spot and the hen is laughing rather than cringing. That is the difference between a story she happily retells for years and a moment she would rather forget.

It photographs brilliantly too. A buff butler holding a tray, the group mid-life-drawing, the hens cheering at a Dreamboys show, these are the shots that fill the group chat and end up framed. The wow factor is half the appeal, and it sets the tone for the night that follows.

How Tame or Wild Should You Go?

Sexy means different things to different hens, so treat it as a dial rather than a single setting. At the tamer end, a life drawing class, a burlesque lesson or Butlers in the Buff is cheeky and fun without anyone taking much off, which is exactly why these suit a group with mums and aunties in it. For a more elegant version of the same idea, see our classy hen party ideas.

At the wilder end, a Dreamboys strip show or the Adonis Cabaret is a full-on night of muscle and noise, best saved for an evening with the close friends. Most hens land somewhere in the middle: a daytime tease, then a bigger night out.

You do not have to leave the house, either. Butlers, life drawing and DIY kits like garters and nipple tassels can all come to you, so you keep it private and pour your own drinks. See what travels in our mobile hen party options. Whatever level you land on, tell us and we match the act to the group.

Sexy hen activities run right across the UK, from Liverpool and Brighton to Manchester and London. Browse all our hen do destinations to compare.

Eleanor - Group Booking Specialist

“The brides who are nervous about a sexy activity are always the ones laughing hardest by the end. The acts are professionals, they read the room, and it is far more playful fun than anyone expects. Pick the level you are comfortable with and we sort the rest.”

Eleanor
Group Booking Specialist

★★★★★

"Great experience for my hen do. My friends organised a Butler in the Buff as a surprise and it was so much fun!"

— Holly, via Trustpilot

Why Book Your Sexy Hen Do With Funktion Events

You pick the activities, we book the lot. Tell us about the hen, the dates and the city, and your hen party planner sorts the acts, timings and venues, so all you have to do on the day is enjoy the show.

  • Every act booked and confirmed for you, with professional, reliable suppliers.
  • Every hen pays her own share online, so the organiser is not chasing anyone.
  • Book for 11 on a package and the 12th place goes free.
  • ABTA-bonded (Y6501), so your money is protected from the moment you book.

Ready to sort it? Build your own hen do online, or call the team on 0161 341 0052 and we will line it up.

Sexy Hen Party FAQs

Dreamboys, Butlers in the Buff, life drawing, burlesque and body painting are the most booked. The right one depends on how cheeky the bride-to-be wants to go and whether mums and family are coming along.
They should not be. Every act is run by professionals who read the group and keep it cheeky rather than crude, and you choose how tame or wild to go. The bride ends up laughing, not cringing.
Yes. Butlers in the Buff, life drawing, burlesque and DIY kits like garters and nipple tassels all work in the daytime and most come to your accommodation. See our mobile hen party options for what travels.
The tamer choices are made for mixed groups. Life drawing, a burlesque class and Butlers in the Buff are playful and fun without being explicit, so the mums enjoy them as much as the friends do.
Eight to twelve weeks for a weekend, and earlier for a Dreamboys or Adonis show on a peak summer Saturday, as the big shows sell out first.
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