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Never have I ever questions for hen parties, pre-drinks and anyone brave enough to own up.

Never Have I Ever Questions for Every Kind of Group

Never have I ever is a confession game. One person says something they have never done, and anyone who has done it takes a drink or puts a finger down. Below are 200 never have I ever questions in ten sets, from funny and wedding to spicy, dirty and juicy, plus questions about the bride for a hen do.

It is one of the most-read games in our hen party handbook, because it needs nothing but a drink and a group willing to be honest. You will learn more about your friends in twenty minutes than in twenty years. Funktion Events has organised more than 55,000 hen parties since 2007, so we know which questions get a room laughing and which ones get the secrets out.

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How to Play Never Have I Ever

  1. Sit in a circle with a drink each. Everyone holds up ten fingers.
  2. Take turns to read out a question that starts "Never have I ever...".
  3. Anyone who has done it puts a finger down and takes a sip.
  4. The first person with no fingers left loses the round.

Playing Never Have I Ever as a Drinking Game

Keep the drinking rule simple: one sip for each thing you have done, never a whole drink. If the reader has done it themselves, they drink too. For the hen party version, the bride drinks double on any question about weddings or her partner.

Playing Without Drinking

The fingers version works just as well with soft drinks, or with no drinks at all. Swap the sip for a forfeit, a sweet from the middle of the table, or a point on a scoreboard. Nobody has to explain why they are not drinking.

One house rule worth agreeing at the start: if someone puts a finger down, the group can ask one follow-up question. That is where the best stories come from.

Which Never Have I Ever Questions to Use

Match the set to the room. Start light, and only move to the spicy and dirty questions once everyone is comfortable.

Question setWhat it's likeBest for
FunnyEmbarrassing but harmlessBreaking the ice with guests who have only just met
About the brideThe bride answers, the group guesses firstFinding out who really knows the bride
WeddingWeddings you have been to, and survivedPre-drinks, including mums and aunties
SpicyFlirty, cheeky, suggestiveOnce the group has warmed up
DirtySex and the bedroom, adults onlyLate in the night, close friends only
For adultsWork, money, hangovers, white liesMixed-age groups and dinner tables
JuicySecrets, exes and confessionsGroups who want the gossip
DatingApps, first dates and disastersSingle friends and long-married ones alike
CrazyWild things people have actually doneFinding out who the dark horse is
TMIGross, awkward, oversharingGetting the whole table groaning

Funny Never Have I Ever Questions

The safest place to start. Everyone has done at least a few of these, so nobody gets singled out early.

  1. Never have I ever laughed so hard I wet myself
  2. Never have I ever picked out a wedgie in public
  3. Never have I ever done something so wrong in public that I still cringe when I think about it
  4. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get a free drink
  5. Never have I ever lied in this game
  6. Never have I ever got drunk playing this game
  7. Never have I ever thrown up after a night out
  8. Never have I ever tried to take a cool selfie and ended up with a double chin instead
  9. Never have I ever laughed at my own joke before finishing the punchline
  10. Never have I ever walked into a glass door
  11. Never have I ever mistaken a stranger for someone I knew and greeted them like an old friend
  12. Never have I ever danced like nobody was watching, then found out everyone was watching
  13. Never have I ever pretended to understand a foreign language and replied with gibberish
  14. Never have I ever waved back at someone who was waving at the person behind me
  15. Never have I ever sent a voice note by accident
  16. Never have I ever tripped up the stairs and pretended I meant to
  17. Never have I ever eaten food off the floor
  18. Never have I ever accidentally liked a photo from years ago while looking at someone's profile
  19. Never have I ever worn my top inside out all day without noticing
  20. Never have I ever googled myself
  21. Never have I ever fallen off a chair in public
  22. Never have I ever been stuck in a lift
  23. Never have I ever fallen asleep in the cinema and snored
  24. Never have I ever pretended to know the words at karaoke
  25. Never have I ever sung in the shower so loudly the neighbours heard

Never Have I Ever Questions About the Bride

This is the hen party version. Read each question out, let everyone guess whether the bride has done it, then she answers. Anyone who guessed wrong takes a drink. The bride has to tell the story behind every yes.

  1. Never have I ever looked up my partner's exes on social media
  2. Never have I ever said "I love you" first
  3. Never have I ever planned my wedding before I was engaged
  4. Never have I ever tried on a wedding dress before I was engaged
  5. Never have I ever practised signing my new surname
  6. Never have I ever had a crush on one of my partner's friends
  7. Never have I ever forgotten my partner's birthday
  8. Never have I ever lied to my partner about how much something cost
  9. Never have I ever read my partner's messages
  10. Never have I ever kept a present from an ex
  11. Never have I ever pretended to like my future in-laws' cooking
  12. Never have I ever guessed the proposal was coming
  13. Never have I ever had a nightmare about the wedding day going wrong
  14. Never have I ever told my friends something I have not told my partner
  15. Never have I ever been on a hen do that got out of hand

Wedding Never Have I Ever Questions

Weddings you have been to, and the things that happened at them. These are safe enough for pre-drinks with mums and aunties, and they still get good stories.

  1. Never have I ever caught the bouquet
  2. Never have I ever seen someone object during the ceremony
  3. Never have I ever been to a wedding with a free bar
  4. Never have I ever been to a same-sex wedding
  5. Never have I ever been to a wedding with a sit-down meal
  6. Never have I ever crashed a wedding
  7. Never have I ever been black-out drunk at a wedding
  8. Never have I ever given a speech at a wedding
  9. Never have I ever been a bridesmaid
  10. Never have I ever been married
  11. Never have I ever forgotten to RSVP to a wedding
  12. Never have I ever knocked over a wedding cake
  13. Never have I ever lost my invitation or forgotten where the venue was
  14. Never have I ever seen a proposal at someone else's wedding
  15. Never have I ever caught someone cheating on their partner at a wedding
  16. Never have I ever been the last person to leave a wedding reception
  17. Never have I ever had a wardrobe malfunction at a wedding
  18. Never have I ever cried during someone else's wedding ceremony
  19. Never have I ever photobombed the couple's wedding photos
  20. Never have I ever caught the bride or groom checking their phone during the ceremony

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Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions

Flirty, cheeky and a little bit suggestive, without going all the way. This is the set that turns a quiet table into a loud one. Check with the bride how far she wants it to go before you start.

  1. Never have I ever flashed someone
  2. Never have I ever kissed someone in this room
  3. Never have I ever kissed a stranger on a night out
  4. Never have I ever kissed two people on the same night
  5. Never have I ever kissed someone without knowing their name
  6. Never have I ever done the walk of shame
  7. Never have I ever worn someone else's clothes home the next morning
  8. Never have I ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person
  9. Never have I ever slid into someone's DMs
  10. Never have I ever sent a cheeky selfie
  11. Never have I ever given someone a fake number
  12. Never have I ever made the first move
  13. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher
  14. Never have I ever had a crush on my boss
  15. Never have I ever fancied a friend's ex
  16. Never have I ever had a dream about someone in this room
  17. Never have I ever had a holiday romance
  18. Never have I ever snogged someone at a wedding
  19. Never have I ever been caught kissing by a parent
  20. Never have I ever been told off for too much PDA
  21. Never have I ever answered the door in just a towel
  22. Never have I ever danced on a table
  23. Never have I ever had a lap dance
  24. Never have I ever been served drinks by a naked butler
  25. Never have I ever been chatted up by a friend's dad
  26. Never have I ever flirted my way out of a parking ticket
  27. Never have I ever gone home with someone I met that night
  28. Never have I ever woken up and not known where I was
  29. Never have I ever kissed someone famous
  30. Never have I ever had a fling with a neighbour

Dirty Never Have I Ever Questions

Strictly adults only and strictly for later in the night. Save this set until any older relatives have gone back to the hotel, and let anyone sit a question out if they want to.

  1. Never have I ever had a one-night stand
  2. Never have I ever slept with a co-worker
  3. Never have I ever had sex in a public place
  4. Never have I ever slept with someone of the same sex
  5. Never have I ever sent a nude photo
  6. Never have I ever used handcuffs or other props
  7. Never have I ever watched porn
  8. Never have I ever faked an orgasm
  9. Never have I ever had sex in a bathroom
  10. Never have I ever had a threesome
  11. Never have I ever forgotten about a one-night stand
  12. Never have I ever had stage fright in the bedroom
  13. Never have I ever fallen asleep during or straight after sex
  14. Never have I ever lied about how many people I have slept with
  15. Never have I ever joined the mile-high club
  16. Never have I ever had a friends with benefits
  17. Never have I ever been caught in the act
  18. Never have I ever role-played in the bedroom
  19. Never have I ever had sex in a car
  20. Never have I ever sexted someone I had never met in person

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Never Have I Ever Questions for Adults

Grown-up life is full of small crimes: sickies, white lies and online shops done after a bottle of wine. These work for any group of adults, including the ones you would not play the dirty set with.

  1. Never have I ever pulled a sickie because of a hangover
  2. Never have I ever gone to work still drunk from the night before
  3. Never have I ever lied on my CV
  4. Never have I ever hidden a shopping bag from my partner
  5. Never have I ever eaten a housemate's food and blamed someone else
  6. Never have I ever regifted a present
  7. Never have I ever pretended to be ill to get out of a family do
  8. Never have I ever fallen asleep on a train and missed my stop
  9. Never have I ever cried in the work toilets
  10. Never have I ever sent a message complaining about someone to that person
  11. Never have I ever muted a friend on social media
  12. Never have I ever worn something with the tags tucked in and returned it
  13. Never have I ever hidden from a neighbour to avoid a conversation
  14. Never have I ever said I had read the book for book club when I had not
  15. Never have I ever done the online food shop drunk
  16. Never have I ever had a hangover that lasted two days
  17. Never have I ever been sick in a taxi
  18. Never have I ever said "five minutes away" before leaving the house
  19. Never have I ever forgotten a friend's birthday and posted about it late
  20. Never have I ever pretended I was busy so I could stay in on my own

Juicy Never Have I Ever Questions

Secrets, exes and the things you never told anyone. These are the questions that get the gossip out, so expect a lot of follow-ups.

  1. Never have I ever kissed, dated or slept with someone and kept it secret
  2. Never have I ever fancied a friend's brother or sister
  3. Never have I ever kept a secret from everyone in this room
  4. Never have I ever told a secret I promised to keep
  5. Never have I ever gossiped about someone in this room
  6. Never have I ever blamed someone else for something I did
  7. Never have I ever gone through a partner's phone
  8. Never have I ever read someone else's diary or messages
  9. Never have I ever lied to a friend about liking their partner
  10. Never have I ever been jealous of a friend's relationship
  11. Never have I ever screenshotted a group chat and sent it to someone else
  12. Never have I ever had a secret social media account
  13. Never have I ever lied to my parents about where I was
  14. Never have I ever gone back to an ex
  15. Never have I ever said "I love you" without meaning it
  16. Never have I ever deleted a message before someone could see it
  17. Never have I ever had a crush on someone who was taken
  18. Never have I ever cancelled plans with this group and gone out with someone else
  19. Never have I ever kept a list of people I would leave my partner for
  20. Never have I ever regretted something I did on a night out with this group

Dating Never Have I Ever Questions

Apps, first dates and the disasters in between. Single friends will have the freshest stories, but the married ones will surprise you.

  1. Never have I ever been unfaithful
  2. Never have I ever gone on a date with no intention of paying
  3. Never have I ever looked up an ex's new partner on social media
  4. Never have I ever used a dating app
  5. Never have I ever had an open relationship
  6. Never have I ever gone on more than one date in a day
  7. Never have I ever pretended to get a call to leave a date
  8. Never have I ever slept with someone on the first date
  9. Never have I ever ghosted someone after a few dates
  10. Never have I ever gone on a blind date and regretted it straight away
  11. Never have I ever pretended to be interested in someone just to get a free meal
  12. Never have I ever called my date by the wrong name
  13. Never have I ever lied about my age on a dating profile
  14. Never have I ever used a cheesy chat-up line and had it work
  15. Never have I ever dated someone much older or much younger than me
  16. Never have I ever spilt a drink on my date
  17. Never have I ever texted the wrong person while on a date
  18. Never have I ever forgotten my purse on a date
  19. Never have I ever been stood up
  20. Never have I ever walked out on a blind date

Crazy Never Have I Ever Questions

The wild things people have actually done. Somebody quiet always turns out to have the best answer here.

  1. Never have I ever shoplifted
  2. Never have I ever been arrested
  3. Never have I ever partied for more than 24 hours straight
  4. Never have I ever snuck in somewhere without a ticket
  5. Never have I ever been kicked out of a pub, bar or club
  6. Never have I ever used the men's toilets because the queue for the ladies' was too long
  7. Never have I ever skinny-dipped
  8. Never have I ever ridden a mechanical bull
  9. Never have I ever swum with sharks
  10. Never have I ever eaten something bizarre like insects
  11. Never have I ever gone skydiving or bungee jumping
  12. Never have I ever applied to go on a reality TV show
  13. Never have I ever taken part in an eating contest
  14. Never have I ever been part of a flash mob
  15. Never have I ever booked a holiday while drunk

TMI Never Have I Ever Questions

Gross, awkward and far too much information. Perfect for the end of the night when nobody has any shame left.

  1. Never have I ever wet the bed as an adult
  2. Never have I ever blocked someone else's toilet
  3. Never have I ever worn the same underwear for more than two days
  4. Never have I ever been sick on a friend
  5. Never have I ever been on a nudist beach
  6. Never have I ever gone commando
  7. Never have I ever not washed my hands after going to the toilet
  8. Never have I ever weed in public
  9. Never have I ever farted quietly at work and then left the room
  10. Never have I ever had a really embarrassing moment in front of a crush
  11. Never have I ever walked around all day with my flies undone
  12. Never have I ever had food in my teeth for a whole conversation without realising
  13. Never have I ever sent a text meant for my partner to someone else
  14. Never have I ever had a stain on my clothes and pretended not to notice
  15. Never have I ever made up an excuse to leave a night out early

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When to Play Never Have I Ever on a Hen Do

Pre-drinks is the sweet spot. Everyone is in one room with a drink in hand, nobody has to shout over music, and by the time you head out the group has a few new in-jokes.

Start with the funny and wedding sets while everyone is still getting to know each other, then move to the bride questions. Save spicy and dirty for the hotel or the after-party. Most groups build the day around one booked activity and play games either side of it, and our hen party activities page has the ideas groups actually book.

More Hen Party Games to Play Next

If the group is still going, would you rather questions keep the debate going without anyone having to confess. For something about the bride, try the How Well Do You Know the Bride quiz or the Mr and Mrs quiz questions.

Want to push things further? Hen party truth or dare and hen do dares turn confessions into challenges, and our truth or dare questions for adults work for any group. Drink If is another drinking game that needs nobody to volunteer. Most likely to questions work well with a big group too. Or browse every game in our hen party games list.

Never Have I Ever FAQs

What are good never have I ever questions?

The best ones are things some of the group will have done and some will not, so there is always a story to follow up. Funny ones such as walking into a glass door work with any group. Spicy and juicy ones get the secrets out once everyone is comfortable.

Everyone holds up ten fingers. Players take turns to say something they have never done, starting with "never have I ever". Anyone who has done it puts a finger down, and the first person with no fingers left loses.

Anyone who has done the thing being read out takes a sip of their drink, including the reader. Keep it to a sip each time rather than a whole drink. The game works just as well with soft drinks, or with a forfeit instead of a drink.

Spicy questions are flirty and suggestive without being explicit, such as kissing a stranger on a night out or sliding into someone's DMs. Dirty questions go further and are about sex, so they are best kept for close friends later in the night.

Yes. Stick to the funny, wedding and bride questions while parents or in-laws are around, and agree with the bride how far it goes before you start. Save the spicy and dirty questions for later in the night.

Got the games sorted? We can sort the rest. Funktion Events has organised more than 55,000 hen parties since 2007. We are an ABTA Member (No. Y6501) and rated Excellent on Trustpilot from 2,811+ reviews. Talk to our hen party organisers or call us on 0161 341 0052.

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