150 Would You Rather Questions

Would you rather questions for hen parties, nights in and anyone who likes a good argument.

Would You Rather Questions for Every Kind of Group

Would you rather is a question game where everyone picks between two options and then has to defend their choice. Below are 150 would you rather questions in nine sets, from funny and weird to spicy, wedding and would-she-rather questions about the bride.

It is one of the most-read games in our hen party handbook, and it is easy to see why. It needs no props, no prep and no confidence, and it works whether the group has known each other for twenty years or twenty minutes. Funktion Events has organised more than 55,000 hen parties since 2007, so we have seen which games actually get a group talking.

Playing with mates rather than a hen group? Our would you rather questions for friends are written for that.

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How to Play Would You Rather

1. One person reads a question out loud.
2. Everyone picks one of the two options. No "neither" and no "it depends".
3. Each person explains their choice in one sentence.
4. Whoever ends up in the minority takes a drink or a forfeit.

For the hen party twist, switch to the would she rather set: the group guesses the bride's answer before she reveals it, and anyone who gets her wrong pays the forfeit.

Which Would You Rather Questions to Use

Match the set to the room. Start light, and only move to the spicy questions once everyone is comfortable.

Funny Would You Rather Questions

The safest place to start. Nobody has to share anything personal, and every one of these gets a reaction.

1. Would you rather have feet for hands or hands for feet?
2. Would you rather have an annoying high-pitched voice or a really deep voice?
3. Would you rather have hairy legs for 10 years or constantly have a moustache?
4. Would you rather have to always hop around on one foot or always have to squat when you walk?
5. Would you rather lose the ability to cry or cry every day for 20 minutes at random?
6. Would you rather have your only mode of transport be a donkey or a giraffe?
7. Would you rather have to be naked at work for an hour or be dropped off two miles from your house naked and walk home?
8. Would you rather have a nose that never stops growing or ears that never stop growing?
9. Would you rather clog the toilet on a first date or on your first day at a new job?
10. Would you rather have seven fingers on each hand or seven toes on each foot?
11. Would you rather sneeze every time you laugh or laugh every time you sneeze?
12. Would you rather have to sing everything you say or dance everywhere you go?
13. Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?
14. Would you rather have your search history read out at the wedding or your texts shown on a big screen?
15. Would you rather wear wet socks for a week or a jumper two sizes too small for a month?
16. Would you rather have a permanent monobrow or no eyebrows at all?
17. Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses?
18. Would you rather always have spinach in your teeth or always have toilet roll stuck to your shoe?
19. Would you rather have a rewind button for embarrassing moments or a mute button for other people?
20. Would you rather be known for the worst karaoke in town or the worst dance moves at every wedding?
21. Would you rather have every photo of you taken mid-blink or mid-sneeze?
22. Would you rather have a theme tune that plays every time you walk into a room or a laugh track after everything you say?
23. Would you rather be stuck in a lift with your ex or with your partner's mum?
24. Would you rather eat a raw onion like an apple or drink a pint of cold gravy?
25. Would you rather have your phone autocorrect every message into capital letters or into rhyme?

Would She Rather: Hen Party Questions About the Bride

This is the hen party version. Read each question out, let everyone guess what the bride would pick, then she reveals her answer. Anyone who guessed wrong takes a forfeit. The same game turns up at bridal showers as "would she rather".

1. Would she rather have the hen do in Benidorm or at a spa in the Cotswolds?
2. Would she rather wear an L-plate all weekend or a veil made of toilet roll?
3. Would she rather do a life drawing class or a cocktail making class?
4. Would she rather let the groom plan the honeymoon in secret or plan it all herself?
5. Would she rather hear the best man's speech in advance or be surprised on the day?
6. Would she rather give up prosecco or chocolate until the wedding?
7. Would she rather walk down the aisle to a power ballad or a cheesy pop song?
8. Would she rather have a choreographed first dance or just sway and wing it?
9. Would she rather have her mum or her mother-in-law give a speech?
10. Would she rather have a small wedding with a big party or a big wedding with a quiet evening?
11. Would she rather lose her phone or her voice on the hen do?
12. Would she rather sing karaoke on her own or lead the whole group in a dance routine?
13. Would she rather have a sunny wedding day with bad hair or perfect hair in the pouring rain?
14. Would she rather know every detail of the hen do or be kept completely in the dark?
15. Would she rather have a celebrity sing at the reception or a celebrity turn up as a guest?
16. Would she rather see every photo from the stag do or never know what happened?
17. Would she rather be woken on the wedding morning with breakfast in bed or a bottle of fizz?
18. Would she rather go on honeymoon to a beach or on a city break?
19. Would she rather spend the hen weekend in a hot tub or on a dance floor?
20. Would she rather have her worst date story told at the wedding or her most embarrassing photo on the welcome sign?

Wedding Would You Rather Questions

Big-day disasters and big-day choices. These land best with the bride's closest friends, and they tell you a lot about how everyone would cope if the cake hit the floor.

1. Would you rather be engaged for 5 months or 5 years?
2. Would you rather have someone else wear a white dress or someone get proposed to at your wedding?
3. Would you rather have all your exes show up at your wedding or all of your partner's exes show up?
4. Would you rather have your photographer cancel or have your dress ruined at the last minute?
5. Would you rather have everyone get food poisoning from the wedding food or everyone get bored and leave early?
6. Would you rather have your wedding cake dropped before you cut it or your wedding rings lost?
7. Would you rather fall while walking down the aisle or fall during your first dance?
8. Would you rather stain your wedding dress or have the caterers cancel the day before?
9. Would you rather have your partner forget their vows or say the wrong name during them?
10. Would you rather be left at the altar or have the wedding called off the week before?
11. Would you rather have a winter wedding or a summer wedding?
12. Would you rather elope tomorrow or wait two years for your dream wedding?
13. Would you rather have a free bar all night or a free honeymoon?
14. Would you rather have your wedding go viral for the right reasons or the wrong ones?
15. Would you rather give a speech at your own wedding or sit through a two-hour best man's speech?

Spicy and Dirty Would You Rather Questions

Cheeky, flirty and strictly for later in the night. Check with the bride how far she wants it to go, and save this set until any older relatives have headed back to the hotel.

1. Would you rather give up sex or give up food?
2. Would you rather walk in on your parents having sex or have them walk in on you?
3. Would you rather sleep with someone on the first date or wait six months?
4. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or the lights off?
5. Would you rather have amazing sex that lasts ten minutes or average sex that lasts an hour?
6. Would you rather whip or be whipped?
7. Would you rather have sex in the shower or on the kitchen table?
8. Would you rather have your hair pulled or your back scratched?
9. Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded?
10. Would you rather have a partner with a thing for accents or a thing for uniforms?
11. Would you rather accidentally send a flirty text to your boss or to your mum?
12. Would you rather go skinny dipping in the sea or streak across a cricket pitch?
13. Would you rather kiss a stranger at midnight or slow dance with your ex?
14. Would you rather have one night with a celebrity or a lifetime with someone who is just fine?
15. Would you rather have everyone know your body count or read your browser history?
16. Would you rather give the bride a lap dance or do a striptease for the whole group?
17. Would you rather be served drinks by a naked butler or be carried out of the bar by a fireman?
18. Would you rather date someone who is amazing in bed but a terrible kisser, or the other way round?
19. Would you rather share a hotel bed with the bride's mum or the bride's ex?
20. Would you rather have your partner talk dirty in a posh accent or a Scouse one?

Would You Rather Questions for Adults

Grown-up life is the best material there is: hangovers, in-laws, bills and bosses. These work for any mixed group of adults, including the ones you would not play the spicy set with.

1. Would you rather never do laundry again or never cook again?
2. Would you rather have a four-day week or a 50% pay rise?
3. Would you rather have a hangover that lasts three days or never be able to drink again?
4. Would you rather work for your best friend or have your best friend work for you?
5. Would you rather be debt-free tomorrow or own your home outright in ten years?
6. Would you rather have a cleaner for life or a personal chef for life?
7. Would you rather go back to school for a year or retire five years later?
8. Would you rather never queue again or never sit in traffic again?
9. Would you rather lose your car keys every morning or your phone every evening?
10. Would you rather know what your colleagues say about you or what your family says about you?
11. Would you rather go on holiday with your in-laws or spend Christmas with your boss?
12. Would you rather have free takeaways for a year or free streaming for life?
13. Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the cleverest?
14. Would you rather live without a dishwasher or without a washing machine?
15. Would you rather have your mum read your group chat or your boss read your diary?

Would You Rather Questions for Couples

For couples' nights, joint hen and stag dos, or putting the bride on the spot about married life. Answer for yourself, then guess your partner's answer.

1. Would you rather go on a date night every week or a holiday together every year?
2. Would you rather have your partner cook for you or dance with you?
3. Would you rather share a joint bank account or keep everything separate?
4. Would you rather have the same hobbies or completely different ones?
5. Would you rather always get the last word or always get the remote?
6. Would you rather have a partner who remembers every anniversary or plans every surprise?
7. Would you rather renew your vows every ten years or have one perfect day?
8. Would you rather live together in the city or in the countryside?
9. Would you rather have a partner who is always early or always late?
10. Would you rather read your partner's mind for a day or let them read yours?
11. Would you rather get a handwritten love letter or a surprise weekend away?
12. Would you rather share one duvet or have one each?
13. Would you rather argue in public or make up in public?
14. Would you rather get matching tattoos or wear matching outfits to a party?
15. Would you rather have a partner who snores every night or one who steals the duvet every night?

Hard Would You Rather Questions

No easy answers here. These are the ones that turn into a proper debate, so give people time to argue their case.

1. Would you rather always have a full phone battery or a full tank of fuel?
2. Would you rather live the same day over and over for a full year or take 3 years off the end of your life?
3. Would you rather lose all of your friends but keep your best friend, or lose your best friend but keep the rest?
4. Would you rather hunt and butcher your own meat or never eat meat again?
5. Would you rather be famous or be rich?
6. Would you rather find the love of your life or find a million pounds?
7. Would you rather solve world hunger or global warming?
8. Would you rather give up your phone for a month or give up bathing for a month?
9. Would you rather travel everywhere for free or eat everywhere for free?
10. Would you rather forget your partner's birthday or your anniversary every year?
11. Would you rather know the truth and be hurt or never know and be happy?
12. Would you rather give up your favourite food forever or your favourite person for a year?
13. Would you rather change one thing in your past or see one thing in your future?
14. Would you rather have everyone you love forget you or forget everyone you love?
15. Would you rather save your pet or a stranger from a burning building?

Weird Would You Rather Questions

Absurd, impossible and completely pointless, which is exactly why they work after a few drinks.

1. Would you rather sleep with your boss or sleep with your father-in-law?
2. Would you rather be 11 feet tall or 9 inches tall?
3. Would you rather have B.O. and not know it or always smell B.O. on everyone else?
4. Would you rather have the face of a pensioner and the body of a 20-year-old, or the other way round?
5. Would you rather speak every language or speak to every animal?
6. Would you rather eat only pizza for a year or no pizza for a year?
7. Would you rather have a third nipple or an extra toe?
8. Would you rather work your current job for a year at double pay or have a year off on your current pay?
9. Would you rather have super-sensitive taste buds or super-sensitive hearing?
10. Would you rather hear your least favourite song on a loop for a year or never hear music for a year?
11. Would you rather have fingers as long as your legs or legs as long as your fingers?
12. Would you rather sweat mayonnaise or cry gravy?
13. Would you rather have a pet dinosaur the size of a cat or a cat the size of a dinosaur?
14. Would you rather only eat with chopsticks or only drink through a straw?
15. Would you rather hiccup for the rest of your life or always feel like you are about to sneeze?

Deep Would You Rather Questions

For the end of the night, when the music is off and the group is winding down.

1. Would you rather carry on with your life or restart it?
2. Would you rather lose your sight or your memories?
3. Would you rather have a pause button or a rewind button for your life?
4. Would you rather die in 20 years with no regrets or live to 100 with lots of regrets?
5. Would you rather see the beginning of planet Earth or the end of it?
6. Would you rather get away with lying all the time or always know when someone is lying?
7. Would you rather know how you will die or know when?
8. Would you rather find your passion or the love of your life?
9. Would you rather have summer forever or winter forever?
10. Would you rather read minds or predict the future?

When to Play Would You Rather on a Hen Do

Pre-drinks is the sweet spot. Everyone is together in one room, nobody has to shout over music, and it gets the group talking before the night out properly starts.

It also works on the train or minibus to a hen destination, and as a filler between courses at dinner. Most groups build the day around one booked activity and play games either side of it, and our hen party activities page has the ideas groups actually book.

More Hen Party Games to Play Next

Once the group is warmed up, Never Have I Ever questions are the natural next step, because they get the secrets out. If you want something about the bride, try the How Well Do You Know the Bride quiz or the Mr and Mrs quiz questions.

For later in the night, hen party truth or dare and hen do dares push things further, and Drink If needs nobody to volunteer. Most likely to questions are another easy one to play with a big group. Or browse every game in our hen party games list.

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